- Extreme but beautiful Shibari
- A good example of why I’m shopping for sturdy bamboo pole
- Don’t try this at home - suspension bondage is edge play - only trained individuals who are prepared for emergencies with a working understanding of the risks inherent in such suspension bondage should attempt these kinds of activities.
- Sourced from http://lewrubensproductions.zenfolio.com
Not many women are flexible enough to make it into this particular pose.
Pictures of extreme bondage in positions unobtainable for the average lady sometimes play havoc with a submissive woman’s self-image and sense of self-respect.
Just as some women struggle with body image issues when confronted by airbrushed anorexic supermodels in glossy magazine advertisements, the desire to please their Master/Mistress by matching bondage positions from fetish photo shoots sets a good number of submissives up to fail.
As I recently explained to Serafina, a loving dominant like myself isn’t bothered by the fact that a beautiful submissive such as herself may not be as flexible as she was at 16 years of age. Neither is a loving dominant going to be phased by an inability to recreate a particular photo’s pose.
I’ve experienced a vicarious thrill at witnessing a daredevil act, remember that I come form a generation that watched Evel Knievel try to jump a river canyon. But I have no desire to attempt death defying feats myself - no way!
I can enjoy a work of art at a museum without wanting, or needing, to display it in my own home.
And, thankfully, I can enjoy an extreme Shibari or bondage position without wanting or needing to recreate it at home.
With that said, it is time for me to go find out how far Serafina can spread her legs, I do need her to spread as wide as she possibly can, I’m sure we can get close …